The one event that has really changed my life is that I am about to be a mother. I have had to do a lot of thinking on whether this is right for me or what all needs to be done. I have also had to think about whether I am going to be a good parent or not. I have had to give up a lot of things I usually would have been doing but now I can’t. So really it has cost me a lot. I no longer can just be one of the gang I have a baby growing inside me to think about and think of what that stuff may be doing to me and the baby. I also realize it is only going to get worst too. I will have a lot more responsibilities. I will also have to make sure every time I make a choice that I think about the baby as well as myself. Because I don’t want to hurt an innocent child.  Plus having a baby growing inside you is the best thing. Especially when I feel the baby move I just can’t believe it is my baby and I have someone else t watch out for.